- 90% witness such behavior in your environment,
- 30% have participated at some time either as victim or perpetrator
- Between 25 and 30% of undergraduate students of ESO claims to have once been the victim of aggression
- 5.6% actor or patient is a systematic intimidation
- The 34.6% of students recognized that it would not seek advice from your teacher if you are in a situation of violence
- Only 1 in 3 of those who suffer are able to report it (33%)
- 37% believed that not strike back makes them cowards.
- 40% of psychiatric patients was the victim of a "bully" in school
Now to see what are the characteristics of bullying and Bullying:
must exist a helpless victim attacked by a bully or group of thugs,
presence of unequal power (power imbalance), among the strongest and weakest. It is an unequal situation of helplessness of the victim,
Existence of repeated aggressive action over a long period of time and recurring basis.
The attack on the victim creates the expectation of being targeted again.
Bullying refers to specific subjects, never group.
Bullying can be practiced alone or in groups.
Types of Bullying
we talk about different types of bullying, they often appear several types simultaneously.
- Physical: pushing, kicking, assault with objects, etc. ... It occurs more frequently in primary than in secondary.
- Verbal is the most common. Mainly insults and nicknames, too slurs in public, highlighting physical defects, ...
- Psychological: undermine the individual's self-esteem and foster their sense of fear.
- Social : attempts to isolate the young of other group members and classmates.
's psychosocial
Through various studies and investigations, it has been possible to identify psychological profiles of those involved in bullying:
1. Aggressor: Abusers come in all all shapes and sizes. Some are bigger or higher than the others. Some get into trouble often. Some are young folk who seem to "have it all", with lots of friends and good grades. But look inside your mind and find something we all have in common: something or someone makes you feel insecure, so they brag and pleasing, to feel better themselves.
2. Now to describe the profile of the victim :
How is the victim?
Generally, when an attacker has chosen someone, others will know who that person is a victim and begin to make attacks as well.
has very little confidence in itself and can not seem to defend itself.
3. We also talk about "kinds of public or spectators" contemplating the phenomenon and its behavior and awareness is vital to prevent and tackle the problem.
- Why allow them to happen? Here are some reasons:
- These people want to "take sides" of the perpetrator because that makes them feel strong.
- the other side. siding with the victim would make them feel weak.
- is fun with the attacks.
- not believe that protesting can help.
- fear that if they say something. the aggressor would go against them.
- feel they are taking their frustrations to self-harm someone. though they themselves are not hurting the victim, but watching how the hurt.
Finally I would like to recall three words of Mahatma Gandhi, Indian activist nonviolence can be applied to each of the three protagonists of this important problem:
- To the audience:
"The most atrocious of bad things about bad people is the silence of good people"
- For the abuser:
"Humanity can not get rid of more violence that through non-violence "
- For the victim
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